Packing for a hospital birth can feel a little like packing for a trip you’ve never taken… to a place you don’t fully control… with a wildly unpredictable timeline. Fun, right?

As a birth photographer who’s been present for countless hospital births—and as a mom myself—I’ve seen what actually gets used, what gets forgotten, and what people wish they had packed at 3 a.m.

So let’s break it down. No fear-mongering. No overpacking panic. Just the good stuff.

The Essentials (a.k.a. Don’t Skip These)

These are the things you’ll almost definitely want during labor, delivery, or your hospital stay.

1. Photo ID, Insurance Card & Paperwork

Not exciting, but very necessary. Put these in an easy-to-reach pocket so you’re not digging through a tote bag mid-contraction.

2. Phone Charger (the Long One!)

Hospital outlets are never where you want them to be. A 10-foot charger is the real MVP of the hospital birth packing list.

3. Comfortable Clothing

Think:

• A loose robe
• A comfy bra or nursing bra
• Cozy socks (hospital floors are cold)
• Something soft to wear home

Pro tip: Pack clothes you don’t mind being photographed in—because those early moments are often captured.

Labor Comfort Items (Because Birth Is Work)

4. Lip Balm

Hospitals are dry. Labor breathing is real. Chapped lips are not the vibe.

5. Hair Ties or Headband

You’ll want your hair out of your face at some point. Trust me.

6. Essential Oils or a Familiar Scent

Smell is powerful. A favorite scent can ground you and make the room feel more like yours.

7. Your Birth Preferences (Printed)

Even if your care team is amazing, having a printed copy of your preferences can be helpful—especially during shift changes.

For Your Support Person (Yes, They Matter Too)

8. Snacks (Real Ones)

Hospital cafeterias close. Vending machines disappoint. Pack snacks that actually sustain energy—protein bars, trail mix, jerky, chocolate (obviously).

9. Change of Clothes

Birth doesn’t run on a schedule. Fresh clothes = happier support person.

Baby Basics (Hospitals Cover More Than You Think)

Hospitals usually provide diapers, wipes, and blankets, so don’t go overboard.

10. Going-Home Outfit

One adorable, comfy outfit is plenty. Bonus points if it photographs well.

11. Baby Nail File or Mittens

Some babies come out with talons. It happens.

Nice-to-Have (But Not Required)

12. Your Own Pillow

Hospital pillows are… fine. Your pillow is better.

13. A Playlist or Bluetooth Speaker

Music can help set the tone—calm, empowering, or “I need Beyoncé right now.”

14. A Keepsake Item

A letter to your baby, a special necklace, or something meaningful can be grounding and beautiful to photograph.

What You Can Leave at Home

Let’s keep it real:

• 7 outfit changes
• Full makeup kits (unless it brings you joy!)
• Every baby item you own

Less stuff = less to manage.

Final Thoughts From a Birth Photographer

You don’t need to pack for every possible scenario. You just need to pack for you.

Birth is raw, powerful, emotional, and unpredictable—and the most important things can’t be packed into a bag anyway. But a little preparation goes a long way in helping you feel calm, comfortable, and present.

And if you’re having your birth documented? These are the details that help your story unfold beautifully—exactly as it is.

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Before we dive into the details, I have to share some happy personal news.

I was thrilled beyond belief when my lovely client from 2024 called and said she will be having baby #2 in November of 2025. So exciting! She let me know she would be giving birth at Saddleback Medical Center again and using an epidural.

Her call was a wonderful reminder that when someone has a positive, supported birth experience, they often choose what worked for them again. Let’s talk about what an epidural is, how it works, and why many birthing parents choose this option.

What is an Epidural?

An epidural is a form of pain relief commonly used during labor. It works by numbing the nerves that carry pain signals from the uterus and birth canal to the brain. The goal is to significantly reduce pain while allowing you to remain awake and alert for your baby’s birth.

Epidurals are administered by an anesthesiologist and are typically offered in hospital settings, including places like Saddleback Medical Center.

How is an Epidural Given?

The process usually looks like this:

1. Positioning: You’ll either sit up or lie on your side while curving your back outward.
2. Cleaning and numbing: The lower back is cleaned, and a local anesthetic is used to numb the skin.
3. Catheter placement: A thin catheter is placed into the epidural space in your lower back. The needle is then removed, leaving only the soft catheter.
4. Medication delivery: Pain-relief medication is delivered through the catheter, either continuously or in timed doses.

Once the epidural is effective, most people experience a significant reduction in contraction pain, typically within 10–20 minutes.

What Does an Epidural Feel Like?

People experience epidurals differently, but most report:

• Strong pain relief from contractions
• Pressure sensations still present
• Reduced sensation from the waist down
• Loss of the ability to walk (temporary)
• Legs feeling heavy, warm, or tingly

Many people can still feel contractions without the sharp pain, which can make labor feel more manageable and less exhausting.

Benefits of an Epidural

Epidurals can be a helpful tool for many birthing parents, especially when labor is long or intense. Benefits may include:

• Significant pain relief
• Ability to rest or sleep during labor
• Reduced stress and tension
• Helpful in certain medical situations
• Can make cervical exams or procedures more comfortable

For some, choosing an epidural allows them to stay present, calm, and emotionally grounded during birth.

Things to Consider

While epidurals are generally very safe, it’s important to understand possible trade-offs:

• Reduced mobility during labor
• Pushing stage may be longer
• Possible drop in blood pressure
• Temporary itching, shivering, or numbness
• Increased need for additional interventions in some cases

Having a supportive care team can help you adjust positions, stay comfortable, and continue progressing even with limited movement.

There Is No “Right” Way to Give Birth

Whether someone chooses an epidural, plans to avoid medication, or decides in the moment, what matters most is feeling informed, respected, and supported.

Hearing from returning clients—like my wonderful 2024 client expecting again in 2025—reinforces how personal and powerful birth choices are. When someone feels heard and cared for, they trust themselves and their decisions moving forward.

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Do I have to lie on my back to deliver my baby?

What happens during a hospital labor and birth depends greatly on your advocacy and your OB. It is important for you to speak about options with your OB before you head to the hospital to birth. Making sure they are open to what you want and need is crucial to avoid being super uncomfortable at the hospital. If they are not open to your wishes, it is never too late to find a different OB.

One option to ask your OB is if they are open to birthing in different positions, not just on your back and your legs in stirrups. Now, I have heard OBs say to clients, “Of course you can labor in different positions.” However, that wasn’t your question. Your question is birthing in different positions. That is a HUGE difference. You may end up feeling that your back is the best way for you at the time, but maybe in that moment, it is better if you stand, be on all fours, or be in a side-lying position. An OB should really be the guide and help if there is a complication, and allow you the freedom to birth as you wish. If they are not or are sticklers for being on your back, then you need to decide if that is the right OB for you.

What If I Want Delayed Cord Clamping?

Your idea and your OB’s idea of delayed cord clamping may be vastly different. Again, I believe in hospitals and doctors, and if there is an emergency, there is no other place I would want to be. That said, having babies is a numbers game. Quick in and quick out, make room for the next family. For most OBs (huge generalization here), their idea of cord clamping is about a minute to, at most, 5 minutes. They want to sew you up (if needed for tearing), make sure there is no excess bleeding and move on.

The reason for delayed cord clamping is to allow for the transfer of blood and stem cells from the placenta to the newborn. These benefits include increased blood volume, improved iron stores, and potentially better neurodevelopmental outcomes. So, for these reasons, delayed cord clamping should be done until the cord turns white. That means all the goodies have gone to the baby, and there are none left in the cord. This, generally speaking, is going to be longer than 5 minutes. It could be up to 10 minutes. That is a long time in a doctor’s world. It is important to talk to them before your baby’s birth date. This should be included in your birth preference plan.

What if A Different Doctor is Delivering my Baby?

You may be surprised how often this happens. I would say it is about 50/50, in my experience, that a family’s chosen OB does the actual delivery. It is important that you give and have the on-call OB (as well as the nurses) know that you have a birth preference plan. The on-call OB needs to know your wishes. This is where advocacy for yourself is super important because now you need to start over with this new on-call OB, and make sure you convey the importance of your wishes.

What about the Golden Hour?

After the whirlwind of giving birth, you’ll find yourself in a magical moment of bonding with your new family. There’s a soft hush in the room, punctuated only by the gentle sounds of your newborn’s breaths. For about an hour, you’ll have the precious opportunity to soak in this new reality.

However, the first 15-30 minutes might feel like a bustling hive of activity, with nurses coming in and out, checking vital signs, and ensuring everything is just right. But don’t let that distract you; once those initial flurries settle down, you’ll be left with 30-45 minutes of uninterrupted togetherness. This Golden Hour is generally given unless there is some issue with you or baby.

What about newborn shots?

This is something they will ask if you want. That is entirely up to you.

The vitamin K shot: Newborns have low levels of Vitamin K, which is essential for blood clotting.

Eye Drops: Eye drops (often erythromycin) are given to prevent conjunctivitis (eye infection) caused by certain bacteria that can be present during delivery. 

Hepatitis B Vaccine: This vaccine protects against Hepatitis B virus, which can cause liver damage. The first dose is usually given within 24 hours, with subsequent doses at 1-2 months and 6-18 months.

To learn more about vaccines at the hospital, you can follow this link to UCLA Health

In Summery

I truly hope you found Parts I, II, and III helpful. I want to encourage you to consider hiring a doula (like me!) if you ever feel uncertain about navigating the hospital. Having a supportive guide can make all the difference in your experience.

Going solo is absolutely okay, but be mindful of the potential for information overload. It’s easy to get lost in the sea of links and resources, spiraling down a rabbit hole that might leave you feeling overwhelmed. A doula can help you stay focused and ensure you have the right information at the right time.

Investing in this support can provide peace of mind and empower you to make informed decisions throughout your journey. Your experience matters, and having a dedicated advocate by your side could turn what may feel like a daunting journey into a more manageable and positive one. Consider the benefits—it could be the best choice you make!

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